We've heard this phrase, smiled at it and even used it as a jab towards those we love! But usually in terms of asking for Patience, Strength of Character or Greater Responsibility.
What about when we are asking the Lord to direct our paths in the little moments, the quick decisions and the down-and-dirty-of-life-stuff? Do we really want
His way? Are we really prepared to do as
He tells us?
The spiritual side says 'YES!' while the reality side says, "Yes, but..."
On one day during my recent Waiting Room experience, I had become overly anxious and tired of waiting. Doing nothing. Waiting on others. Sitting idly when I felt they needed more information. For those who know my Type A, Action-oriented, Results-driven personality, you know this was painful. Again, this was a minor decision. Something as small as: Should I send an email?
Thankfully, I was with a good friend - an incredible woman of God - on this particular day. She said, "I think you should ask God if you are to send the email." My response was: "How can I trust that I'll hear Him right when my default mode is Act, Do, Send?" She repeated, "I think you should ask God what you are to do."
We prayed and went about our business. We were sitting at computer stations in the same room, checking emails, when I opened my daily online devotion. It read:
When a person's self-worth or success hinges on the achievement of a goal which can be blocked or which is uncertain or impossible, how will he respond to those who frustrate his goals? Often he will attempt to control or manipulate the people or circumstances who stand between him and his success...But people who are secure in their identity in Christ don't need to control others. Proverbs 3:5 says "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding"
Ok, then. I looked up from my computer just as my friend repeated, "I think you should ask God whether or not to send the email." All I could say was: "Read this devotion I just received. I am not sending
anything."
Resting in the Lord, Trusting in Him to do all that was needed on my behalf was one of the hardest things I have ever done. But I felt peace immediately and the peace lasted until the wait was over.